Simply Thrive Therapy Blog

Mindfulness Techniques; Where do I start?  The types, explanations, and number of mindfulness techniques out there are countless. It’s so overwhelming, it can be difficult to even get started, much less find something that works for you. Here are a few tricks and tips to simplify the art of mindfulness.  Most techniques fit into a few loose categories: Meditation. Most people are pretty familiar with this one. It involves things like repeating a mantra, focusing on a point in the distance, visual imagery, etc. It is usually an internal, “in your head” type of technique.  Breathing. Again, this one is pretty straightforward. There are lots of different breathing exercises, and

Rose, Bud, and Thorn. Taking a step back and reflecting on our experiences provides us with information that we can use to inform future events or embrace as small wins. One way to engage in a retrospective process is the rose, bud, and thorn exercise. This is a mindfulness activity where people, whether individually or in groups, identify three types of data. This can be applied in many ways, for example, a review of a completed project or a reflection of your day, week, or any desired time frame. You can use this as a conversation starter with others also; for example, at dinner with the family, everyone can share

Learn The Skill of Urge Surfing We all have the tendency to “overdo” things, depending on our own personal psyche;  certain food or drinks, certain hobbies, mindless escapes, etc. Though we often beat ourselves up over it, this is a completely normal part of the human experience and has nothing to do with how “strong” or “moral” we are – it is just being human.  However, it can have harmful effects on us or others. We can recognize this, and recognize that we need to moderate what we’re doing and exercise effective means of self control without judging ourselves.  One very useful tactic for moderating our cravings is called “urge-surfing.”

Yes, you can say no. Sometimes you may find yourself having difficulty saying no. Whether to offers, requests, opportunities, or invites, saying yes feels easier and less complicated than stating no. In the short-term that may be true. However, in the long-term your wants and needs may go unnoticed, which may negatively affect your well-being.  So, how do we navigate these situations? Follow these three steps. Step 1: Assess Your Feeling Before defaulting to yes, take time to determine how you really feel by asking yourself these questions: Does this align with my values and needs? Do I have the time, energy, and attention to be fully engaged? Am I

The Big Five: Can people be organized into just five personality traits?  According to researchers, yes. Ok, not exactly. You should know by now that nothing in human psychology is that simple! We do mostly fit into five major categories, with other traits grouped into each category. There is ongoing debate that one or two more traits should be added and that this model works best for the Western European world, but so far, the field has mostly stuck with the Big Five.  Each trait is a spectrum with polar opposites at each end – we are all somewhere on these spectrums.  Openness (opposite is Traditional/Rigidity) Conscientiousness (sorta-kinda opposite is

Benefits of Working with a Counseling Intern Now that you are ready to work on yourself with a therapist, you may find yourself waiting months to meet with a licensed mental health professional. However, let’s say you can wait a week to meet with an intern but question the benefit of working with one. Though interns are not licensed professionals and have less experience, they offer many advantages worth considering when selecting your therapist. Lower Caseload Intern students have a lower caseload than licensed therapists. This allows these clinicians-in-training to allocate more attention and time to planning sessions for their clientele, from conducting research to selecting appropriate activities.  Wealth of